Seems Like My Wife is Doing Fine

She has been staying in the hospital since 06 Aug, the doctor checks her blood 3 times daily, and she is instructed to be on bed rest and no walking around, not even walking to watch the television, I think it's at another corner away from her bed. Everytime I call her, she is lying on the bed, but she sounds better now.

I think her mom is really nice, she has been staying there with my wife since day 1, cleaning her, buying food for her, I asked my wife where her mom sleeps and she says on the table, must be really tough, if it was me I would have body aches, and she's been sleeping like that for almost a week.

I should have sent her home when she was 4 or 5 weeks pregnant, staying in Singapore she has to do the chores and all, my mom doesn't help much, and if my wife doesn't do it, my mom will find fault with her, it's just very annoying, it's as if she's taking my wife for a maid, I tried to help out as much as I could but I can't be home all the time.

I really don't know what caused her miscarriage but thinking of how my mom shoves all the chores to her, it may be related, whereas if she stayed in Thailand, her mom would take care of everything, that's just how different our moms are.

And my sister, she simply hates my wife, I don't know why, I don't understand why she has her own home, why she would come back and find fault with my wife, isn't it just crazy? How I wish I can afford my own home and get out right now, I'm such a loser, can't even afford my own house, making my wife suffer with me, and losing our baby.

Maybe I'm just trying to find something to blame so I can feel better, anyway my wife is scheduled for an INR (monitor Warfarin) on 14 Aug, if it goes well, she might be discharged.

Sigh, what is family for?

Comments

Anonymous said…
hello, i don't know if u've already heard about this, but i hope this helps you out.
http://therealsingapore.com/content/new-bto-rules-allow-eligible-sporean-foreigner-couples-ballot-2-room-flats
14 August, 2013 17:25
marrythaigirlsingapore said…
Hey, thanks for the link, too bad I'm not yet 35, I'm just 30...
14 August, 2013 20:01
Anonymous said…
another 5 year then, enough time for your wife to recuperate her health, to plan for the next pregnancy and to save up abit of money. :)
15 August, 2013 17:20
marrythaigirlsingapore said…
Nah, planning to try for baby again next year, hope this time it goes well.
15 August, 2013 20:01
kimmielalala said…
I understand how your wife feel. thank GOD she doesn't complain everyday, every second to you. else there will be 3 women you have to entertain EVERYDAY. like working under 3 CEO. When your wife is pregnant its best to prevent her to do all the chores, try to get part time helper, since you are financially well. Don't risk your baby life. Money is a small issue, baby and mother life is important
24 September, 2013 09:43
marrythaigirlsingapore said…
Not easy when she's living with my mother, my mom can be difficult to deal with sometimes, but I learned a lesson, next time my wife is pregnant again, I will send her home, her mom is still the best.
24 September, 2013 12:22
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